Wedding Invitations Shouldn’t Scare You, BAE 💌
- Shylah Trost
- Aug 27
- 2 min read
So many brides we talk to come in with the exact same vibe. Overwhelmed. Nervous. Low-key panicking that they are going to do it all wrong. And let’s not sugarcoat this. You can do it wrong. We have seen it happen. Wording etiquette slip ups. Names spelled wrong. Designs that should have never made it out of Canva. Fonts that make your wedding look like a middle school science fair. We have truly seen it all.
But that’s why we’re here. We are experts at this. Like PhD of wedding stationery. Our whole mission is to turn this scary energy into excitement. You just have to keep the conversation open with us.
If pricing is your fear...
Say it out loud. The vibes are not off just because you have a budget. We can adjust details so you still get luxury without spiraling. Think of us as your stationery bestie who knows how to stretch a dollar and still make it sparkle.
If wording is your fear...
Girl, stop. We literally help with that. We have templates, guides, and actual humans who double check so you are not up at 3 am Googling “do you put Jr. after the comma or before.”
If timing is your fear...
This one is valid. Timing is where so many couples crash and burn. Custom invitations are not next day delivery. We recommend starting 5 to 6 months before your wedding for invitations that do not require custom artwork. Add more time if you want hand painted details or something extra fancy. Do not wait until the last second unless you want to be in full meltdown mode or have to order something that has a 3 week turn around.
Other things brides are secretly terrified of:
Picking a design and then hating it later. (That is why proofs exist. You get to vibe check everything before we print.)
Moms and MILs fighting over wording. (We help you keep the peace while keeping your vision intact.)
Ugly handwriting on envelopes. (We offer guest addressing so your invitations do not look like detention hall assignments.)
Ordering the wrong number. (We guide you so you are not left with fifty extras collecting dust or scrambling because you ran out.)
And now for a little spiritual delulu moment. Let’s leave the fear energy behind us. No more manifesting typos or stress tears. We are manifesting the wedding of your dreams. Your invitations are the opening act to your big day and they should radiate the same joy and magic you feel in your heart.
So deep breath. Exhale the fear. Inhale the vibe. And let’s make some stationery magic.
Comments